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In this installment of C.U. in Bed, a reader faces a moral dilemma in whether or not to tell her first potential partner that she's never had sex before. A second reader wonders if oral sex can ever be pleasant, or if she's doomed to never like it.
Dear Andrea,
I'm a woman, and a virgin. I wish I was more secure, but I'm embarrassed about it and keep it a secret. I think I'm going to have sex soon. Would it be wrong not to tell the guy before it happens? When and how would I even tell him without making things awkward? Do I have a responsibility to let this other person know, even though I don't consider the "first time" to be all that significant, and would rather not draw attention to it?
— Beginner
