I was thinking about what advice I should give in this, my last advice column ever (unless, like, Dear Prudence mysteriously vanishes and everyone's like, "Quick, we'd better get a recent college graduate with minimal blogging and very little life experience!"). And so I was thinking back over the questions that were submitted over the course of the past year. And I realized that the best piece of advice that I can give you—or that anyone can give anyone, for that matter—doesn't even come from me.