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In this week's C.U. in Bed, a gay male reader asks about the ethics of not disclaiming his orientation to the women he hooks up with, and another reader who suffers from anxiety and depression wonders how to know when he's ready to leave his insecurities out of the bedroom and have sex.
Dear Andrea,
I'm gay, but I sometimes hook up (read: sleep with) girls without telling them that I'm gay. Getting it up isn't a problem (unless I've been drinking heavily, which I don't really do. However, finishing definitely is a problem, unless she lets me stick it in her vagina). I probably couldn't marry (or even date) a girl, and I definitely hook up with guys mostly.
What are your thoughts on the ethics of my situation?
--- New Normal
